How he loves me when I need space from touch | MAKEUP STORYTIME #shorts

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Date: October 30, 2025

45 thoughts on “How he loves me when I need space from touch | MAKEUP STORYTIME #shorts

  1. With me i love to show love with physical touch but hate recieving it a lot of people find me weird for it but its the same with my mom and we joke about how we both want to show eachother our love with hugs and like holding eachothers hand but we both hate it when the other does it

  2. My ex was hardcore about physical touch and manipulated me into believing that if I didn’t accept her physical affection, I didn’t love her. She did many many bad things (faking a medical condition kind of bad) but that was on the top of the list of why I broke up with her, I hate physical contact and she discussed me of her by showing me affection and manipulating me with it

  3. Absolutely yes, I really dislike physical touch most times. I didn’t have to explain cause I only date people I have known and been close to for many years. The first time I hugged my first gf she felt lucky that I trusted her… I felt bad cause I didn’t ask first I gave her a quick hug from behind and left. She said it did not bother her at all but still it is best practice to ask first.

  4. i'm asexual, and physical touch is also really low on my list as well, if not at the bottom, generally i prefer my own bubble. i was quite loud and verbal about these things to my ex, he'd been told 100s of times im asexual, and how much even hugs sometimes made me feel so overwhelmed, he knew this, when he decided to ask me to be together, he knew this, when it's high, if not the top of his love language list, he knew this, when he decided to meet, and visit during valentines. i told him beforehand as well, i am better at verbalizing anything through text, and online screens, than IRL.

    i got picked up a lot, i got dragged into cuddles a lot, he'd pat my head, or hug me from behind my chair a lot, which i would jump from, because i didn't see him walking up to me, and in general, during any hugs i seemed to just freeze up, i don't think it's a thing for me. and i don't think we had the same definition of cuddles, it seemed like his definition was spooning, while what i had in mind, and would probably be more comfortable with, are those where you're like… sitting on a sofa together and leaning on each others shoulders, idk a better way to describe it

    i did end things as soon as he went home, i thought at first maybe it was something i would get used to, since i haven't been in a relationship in a very long time, but it ended up not being something i could get used to, especially not after what he attempted to do.

    now i believe i might be aromantic, but i'm not 100% sure, because maybe i just like girls? who knows, i don't know if i'll give it another try unless they too are asexual.

  5. This is so amazing to hear someone talk about, because I’m the exact same way and people look at me like I’m crazy when I don’t want physical touch 24/7. All I want is to just be able to pick when someone can touch me

  6. My dad is similar with words he speaks all day at work and uses the term “my word bucket is overflowing” when he can’t handle non-essential conversation anymore it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to talk to me or he doesn’t like the meaningless jabber his bucket is just full

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