Here’s a talk that could literally change your life. Which career should I pursue? Should I break up — or get married?! Where should I live? Big decisions like these can be agonizingly difficult. But that’s because we think about them the wrong way, says philosopher Ruth Chang. She offers a powerful new framework for shaping who we truly are.
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I'm so glad I've found this video. I'm so stuck trying to decide between two career choices and this has helped immensely
that's a lot of words for saying nothing
Não escolher já e', em si, uma escolha.
Grateful!
This is an exceptionally good and helpful video. Im currently practicing media minimalism and I think this advice will now shape how I make decisions my entire life 🙂
Great video
Thanks
You had me at “who to marry!” Using the idea of choosing between two people to marry to teach about hard decision makes for a dreadful, and terrible Ted Talk!
Can't believe 11 years later, this hits me hard as I am judging exactly the same condition, whether to stay or to move. Thank you.
12:03 I'm sorry, that one person laughing tho 😂