“how beautiful it is to love so hard and feel so deeply ❤️”
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highly recommend reading these books
It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life by Jillian Turecki (her podcast is really great too)
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown
Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan
The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest
Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller
this podcast also lowkey changed my brain chemistry: Date Yourself Instead https://open.spotify.com/show/6ie2ywivlNvFCO8LLJYgo7?si=bbf0447035674dc7
➥FAQ:
How old are you? Born in 2001
What camera do I use? SONY ZV-E10, Canon PowerShot V10, GoPro, iPhone
Where do you live? Ontario, Canada
What do you use to edit? FINALCUT PRO
What kind of dog do you have? His name is Milo and he’s a Maltese 🙂
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Music by LOVELOVELOVE – everything feels like a movie – https://thmatc.co/?l=073B8548
Music by Reed Gaines – All That They Told You – https://thmatc.co/?l=768184BF
Music by andreas owens – speaking with my chest – https://thmatc.co/?l=8E47B245
Music by Grisp – Keep growing – https://thmatc.co/?l=28487130
Music by Lyle Kam – falling – https://thmatc.co/?l=3831B879
Music by Mason Murphy – He Would Say – https://thmatc.co/?l=531B045B
Music by Mason Murphy – Message In My Notes – https://thmatc.co/?l=6B6709D9
Music by August James – Figurine Baby – https://thmatc.co/?l=0EB23F64
Music by Pluto & Charon – Where This Goes – https://thmatc.co/?l=5A675034
Music by Mason Murphy – Lose Your Way – https://thmatc.co/?l=D16F50AF
Music by Pluto & Charon – Take – https://thmatc.co/?l=E2B7EE33
Music by Scalawag – Made Of – https://thmatc.co/?l=D5E4527B
Music by Hat House – This I Know – https://thmatc.co/?l=BE083A92
Music by August James – Prairie Eyes – https://thmatc.co/?l=744E497F
timestamps:
0:00 short + intense
1:15 mickey (not mouse)
2:55 try harder
5:11 withdrawal
6:02 bad at love
7:38 feel feel feel
8:53 red
9:53 it’s over
10:54 reclaiming
14:10 making room
15:07 you saved me
16:34 potential
17:25 closure
18:46 hi stranger
21:10 after them too
22:14 someday
22:54 my final act
This is the best video ever. I experienced the same thing, and while watching your video, I couldn't believe that someone else felt exactly the same. You are full of love, and I'm glad you now understand that love isn't somewhere else, but within you. Someone else just brought that love out of you.
Every word that out of from your mouth, that was healling me soo well. Because, i just felt what you felt… thank you babe, your video helped me
"You were a stranger before and now your a stranger again" that hits hard😢 im glad you are doing better!
I felt that heavy crying so hard, my dear. It’s so heavy when you’re getting it out. Good for you. Not easy ❤
This resonated 💛. A couple of months ago I went through the hell that comes with the aftermath of dating a dismissive avoidant. The indescribable pain of how they do a complete 180, making you question how this is the same person you fell for. Making you feel so incredibly small and worthless, never a priority and constantly ignored. How you’ll tell them things feel different and they feel distant, but they’ll gaslight you into believing nothing changed and they aren’t acting differently. Even though the pain was and is indescribable, and even though I know I deserve so much better and know that G-d was saving me from that person, my nervous system has been in overdrive from the emotional abuse caused by a dismissive avoidant. It messes with your head, your sense of trust; your everything. To anyone going through this, I hear you, you aren’t alone 💛.
Your video truly soothes my heart. I saw myself in your story. It's like I'm having an older sister who has already been through those love-life things, and is now guiding me to clarity.
Hey Linda, I recently commented on your Berlin marathon video (you absolutely rock!). We are literally the same person lol I just want to let you know that when you said you pray but you aren't religious, my heart goes out to you because there is a God out there Who hears you and His name is Jesus. The Gospel truth is that even in this broken world we live in, Jesus came to restore broken relationship. We are not good. We can't earn God's love; He gives it freely. He rescued us from ourselves and from an eternity apart from him. Before I met Jesus, I was a different person. I was anxious, depressed, and relied on no one but myself and what others thought of me. But once I put my trust in Him, life has become less about me and more about Him. It's a beautiful life I get to live because He is the One Who holds me together. My identity is in Him and Him alone. No other person, place, or thing can satisfy your soul – only Jesus. The beautiful things about knowing Jesus is that I'm also known by Him. He's a loving and jealous God. He doesn't force us to love Him in return because that would go against His character. He's patient and kind but He's also just. I'm not perfect, but I serve a God Who is. Being a follower of Jesus is more than a religion; it's a relationship, and the BEST relationship you could ever choose or imagine. You talked a lot about being chosen in your video… the Good News here is that God calls you chosen and beloved. He knows everything about you and loves you just the same. I'm going to leave my insta handle if you want to connect at all! I'm praying for you! You are strong and you are not alone. You inspire me! God bless and take care <3 @katiemei.lin
I got out of a 1 year relationship where I failed to notice i was never the first option and more of the backup woman. This video was just perfect to describe everything. big hugs Linda
I'm so happy to hear that you are praying Linda because prayer is powerful! Whenever I feel anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed I pray to God and He always listens. God is always there for you Linda, no matter what. I also wanted to say that you are so so valuable in God's eyes and He has a plan for you. I'll be praying for you Linda and just know that you are loved and prayed for. Sending much love!
Linda, I don't know that you'll ever see this, but I am so grateful. Thank you for having the bravery to make this video, because it feels like someone has finally understood — both the hurt and the healing, the devastation and the doubt, but also the joy and peace that come with a relationship like this. Thank you for helping others feel less alone and believe that tomorrow will be better. That we are not too broken to love. We are not stupid for staying; we have such big hearts, wanting to care and be cared for. I also believe God is fair, and if I can even encourage you a bit, in the way you have encouraged me and others, truly, it all happens for a reason. Lots of love <3