“how beautiful it is to love so hard and feel so deeply ❤️”
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highly recommend reading these books
It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life by Jillian Turecki (her podcast is really great too)
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown
Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan
The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest
Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller
this podcast also lowkey changed my brain chemistry: Date Yourself Instead https://open.spotify.com/show/6ie2ywivlNvFCO8LLJYgo7?si=bbf0447035674dc7
➥FAQ:
How old are you? Born in 2001
What camera do I use? SONY ZV-E10, Canon PowerShot V10, GoPro, iPhone
Where do you live? Ontario, Canada
What do you use to edit? FINALCUT PRO
What kind of dog do you have? His name is Milo and he’s a Maltese 🙂
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Music by LOVELOVELOVE – everything feels like a movie – https://thmatc.co/?l=073B8548
Music by Reed Gaines – All That They Told You – https://thmatc.co/?l=768184BF
Music by andreas owens – speaking with my chest – https://thmatc.co/?l=8E47B245
Music by Grisp – Keep growing – https://thmatc.co/?l=28487130
Music by Lyle Kam – falling – https://thmatc.co/?l=3831B879
Music by Mason Murphy – He Would Say – https://thmatc.co/?l=531B045B
Music by Mason Murphy – Message In My Notes – https://thmatc.co/?l=6B6709D9
Music by August James – Figurine Baby – https://thmatc.co/?l=0EB23F64
Music by Pluto & Charon – Where This Goes – https://thmatc.co/?l=5A675034
Music by Mason Murphy – Lose Your Way – https://thmatc.co/?l=D16F50AF
Music by Pluto & Charon – Take – https://thmatc.co/?l=E2B7EE33
Music by Scalawag – Made Of – https://thmatc.co/?l=D5E4527B
Music by Hat House – This I Know – https://thmatc.co/?l=BE083A92
Music by August James – Prairie Eyes – https://thmatc.co/?l=744E497F
timestamps:
0:00 short + intense
1:15 mickey (not mouse)
2:55 try harder
5:11 withdrawal
6:02 bad at love
7:38 feel feel feel
8:53 red
9:53 it’s over
10:54 reclaiming
14:10 making room
15:07 you saved me
16:34 potential
17:25 closure
18:46 hi stranger
21:10 after them too
22:14 someday
22:54 my final act
I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope you realize that just by being able to talk about this you are doing so much better than you probably think you would. Being told that you've done nothing wrong and yet left feeling so unwanted and unchosen (is that a word?) is probably one of the most confusing things a person can go through, it's heartbreaking , and it hurts so so much . But i think that's just life, we heal and move on. Thanks for being so honest in this video, and yay at least you got a video out of this 🙂
I have never related more to any video, like I do to this one. Everything you said, all like so on point. I love you so much Linda 💗
I want to meet you as soon as I can ❤
I love you soooo much
My ex and I just broke up 2 weeks ago (October canon event), so this video really came at the best time I love your videos and the timing of this one especially has been spot on
Glad to know you’re better now, and hopefully I will be too one day
would really reconsider being sponsored by betterhelp !! their has been a lot of horror stories about their therapists, but they also are an israeli owned company that gives free care to the idf.
Linda, I don't know how to explain in words what I felt watching this video. This year has been very difficult for me. I had a short but very intense relationship, and I had to end it. It's been the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and since that day (or since the relationship fell apart), I haven't been able to be myself, I haven't been able to improve. I feel like I'm a shadow of my former self. He already has another partner, and I'm still grieving for everything that happened. I feel like no one will ever choose me, that I'll never have the love I expected from him. I feel like the most boring and ugly person, just for not being chosen by him, for not having had his approval in life. It's true, I ended the relationship because I felt I didn't deserve what he put me through. I chose myself, but I've been so sad ever since. I feel like I'll never get over it. Watching your video made me feel so supported. You expressed exactly how I feel and what I hope for in the future. Thank you so much. Greetings from the south of the world, Chilean Patagonia.
This found me when I needed it most. Wishing you all the best! Thank you for this <3
I feel like it’s healthy, especially for an Asian, to learn to analyze and embrace their feelings. We tend to ignore how we feel and dismiss them as weakness because it’s just how we were raised. That’s why I love your content. Because you feel and you react. But I think some feelings are better left alone. If we felt everything and allowed it all to consume us, we could not function because the human mind is so volatile and it can change in the blink of an eye. And I think knowing when to acknowledge and when to set aside is part of emotional maturity. I’m in this journey as well. Sending lots of support ❤❤
Omg linda did u cut ur hair or am I seeing things 😅? It’s so cute! Also, love u always, thank u for this video ❤
Watching like your last 6 vlogs I kind of guessed it was something like this happening in the background because you seem so emotional and kind of wanting to be deeply understood. I think you want companionship and it’s a hole that friendship and those confidence mantras cannot fill and that’s ok, it’s good to be vulnerable , you will get more resilient after this and happiness is a eb and flow you’ll be ok girlie, you didn’t abandon yourself you just took your time going through a process
“We can’t force people to choose us, no matter how much we want them to” that really hit hard. My long term boyfriend of almost 3 years ended our relationship 6 months ago. It was so hard letting him go because I wanted to be chosen and I thought I didn’t fight enough. But you’re right we can’t force someone to choose us. Thank you for sharing and your words Linda it really ment a lot for me today.