Learn how to be a man and how to be masculine in this book summary of No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover.
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Hey, it’s Brandon! On a 60-minute Zoom call, I will help you to stop caring what people think of you.
I will help you to get your social skills to a level where you’re enjoying yourself and not constantly second-guessing everything.
In high school I used to be a ‘floater’ – I’d walk around from group to group, never feeling like I fit in. I was always the quiet one, and I was afraid to talk to women, let alone understand them.
Now I talk to women with ease, dive into public speaking gigs with enthusiasm, vibe with my real friends, and choose to be the one who organizes get-togethers.
My approach is to ‘cut to the mustard’ and get to the Truth of parts of yourself you are hiding, but only as far as you are willing to go. I will never force you to do or say something you don’t want to do.
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When you were growing up, you received messages from your family and the world around you that it was not safe, acceptable, or desirable for you to be who you were, just as you were.
This has resulted in Nice Guys who…
-Co-create poor relationships with women
-Try to hide their flaws and mistakes
-Put other people’s needs and wants before their own
And a whole laundry list of other things:
-Seek approval of others
-Sacrifice personal power and play the role of the victim
-Disassociate themselves from other men and masculine energy
-Create situations where you don’t have very much good sex
-Fail to live up to their full potential
Now, if you’re a Nice Guy and you don’t have 10 minutes to watch and understand the lessons in this video, then you’ll likely continue to feel unhappy.
You might not think you’re a Nice Guy. But you could be.
So keep watch this video to find out if you are one and learn what to do about it!
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"Until you can be sexual with yourself without using porn or fantasizing". Wtf does that mean hahaha? So basically dont masturbate. Bc thats how you masturbate. If not how would you do it lol, sit infront of a mirror at look at yourself wanking? Is that being sexual with yourself? No thanks
1. Belief – if I be like what others want to be – will be loved
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So, in nutshell become Tyler Durden.
your nice guy you described isnt nice at all, i get that they would hide it, but if they are just trying to be nice and thoughtful, you just said to everyone that they actually are bad people.
this how you signal to women that they always have to search for the bad guys. this only propaganda.
My Dad yelled at me that I was a mistake and he never wanted me! My dad was a runner, so I became a runner, my dad loved golf so I played golf, as I grew up my dad worked with engineers and talked about how smart they were and how he respects them, so… you guessed it, I became an engineer. These changed nothing in our relationship. I could go on and on about things my dad did or appreciated and how I did all these and in the end… It changed nothing our relationship, my Dad loved and dotted over my sister who was on welfare. I look forward to hopefully breaking free of being a nice guy, wish me luck!
Useless useless useless useless useless !
Being nice is something you do unconditionally as a normal part of being a functioning human in society. It should not be the defining “trait” of your personality nor should it be done transactionally. One of the reasons women dislike nice guys so much is that their “niceness” is entirely transactional and dependent on you giving them what they want.
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Sucks being a "nice guy". I've realized I got this behavior from my mom, she never stands up for herself. It's always about what you want instead of what she wants which, yes, it's good to be selfless, but nothing's good in excess.
She could eat something new and be like "this is is very tasty, I like it" then I try it, say "ugh, tastes terrible, I don't like it all" and she'll backtrack and be like "yeah you're right, it's not that good" and viceversa. This really opened my eyes and I've finally gotten out being like her in this sense because it feels so dishonest
What does Dr. Glover mean by “toxic niceness”?